Things I learnt from youth building from nothing
Things I learnt from my year with youth who build from nothing.
I chose 9 points that seemed most compelling to me.
The list is "incomplete" on purpose- this is, after all, an unfinished project. There is much for practitioners to learn from the communities we work with, and we hope you will think about adding more to these...
#1. They constantly ask themselves about the purpose of living
Without real hope, human connection, and opportunities to do what they think valuable- just surviving is not enough.
#2. If you really listen, you will hear the break in their voice when they remember their father’s dreams or mother’s hopes
They are reminding themselves why they should not give up. If you hear this break, you should know how serious they are about their purpose.
#3. They are intentional agents
So many young people choose to end their lives every day. It is remarkable how much intention it takes to live another day when embedded in impossible circumstances--and how actively that intention must be set.
#4. Real conversation is real solidarity
Just don’t expect deep gratitude for handouts that help keep them alive in body but despairing in spirit. Prepare for challenging questions--they will challenge how you use your authority, they will challenge your implicit frameworks. Learn from them.
#5. Their potential is awe inspiring
Contribute a useful idea, point them in a viable direction. They will debate it, explain to you why it may not work, and take you by surprise when they find a way to act on it and get results. I have seen this--I know this--I am amazed by this.
#6. The marketplace of ideas draws them
An intellectual thirst is not often associated with those who have nothing. Yet subjects like political science, philosophy, social work, journalism and creative pursuits are in high demand. They search for meaning as much as they search for livelihood.
#7. They need mentors to direct their capacity
At a minimum, someone who listens and sees and connects humanly. A source of ideas, references in the right direction, a model of plain-speaking and a voice of courage-- a mentor who sees the talent, helps to navigate harsh realities is a fundamental need, necessary as food aid, and shelter.
#8. Non-traditional routes are as valuable as a paper degree.
Apprenticeships, informal tutoring, and non-traditional internships are must-haves for those who cannot afford to pursue a formal degree. The experience should count in place of a degree- after all, it is proof one can think and problem solve--these are essential skills in any occupational field.
#9. Don’t be afraid to convey hope-- they understand you cannot work miracles.
They need hope to keep going. But the reason they are hopeful is because they feel they are not alone, that there is someone to discuss their thoughts with, to try to problem-solve, to have a meaningful relationship with in the long haul.
